All of us wish to have nice and honest people in our lives. We do everything (or we think we do) to avoid negative and wrong kind of people from entering into our lives. But it isn’t as easy as said. We are into a constant struggle of attracting only the right kind of people in our lives. Some of us are fed of having problematic partners over and over again while others are shattered because of repetitive failed friendships. What can we do to attract people who are actually good for us? The kind of people who can stay and grow with us!
Are You The *Right Kind Of Person*?
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I mean, isn’t it obvious. The good people will enter your life only if YOU yourself are a good person. Now it is difficult to talk in the binaries of good and bad or right and wrong, but you know what I mean. You will have to become an honest, kind-hearted, and helpful person. There are many surveys to suggest that you are drawn to people like yourself and vice versa. So, if you are an authentic and kind person, the chances are that you will attract authentic and kind people.
You Will Sometimes Have To Repel People
If you aren’t good at repelling people, learn now! Because if you don’t do that, there is no way to stop the wrong kind of people from entering your life! Only attracting good people won’t do the trick. You will also have to take conscious steps to send away the wrong fit, that’s the only plausible way of making room for the right one.
Communicate And Say It Out Loud
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The right people will be able to find you only if you are out there for them to be found. Communicate with people and speak to them about your ideas, thoughts, and principles. It is okay to be vulnerable. Let yourself out in the open and let people notice you. Also, do not underestimate the power of positive affirmations. Positive self-talk can make all the difference in the world. You will do what you speak out loud and talk about. What you speak out loud and talk about will actually happen in your life. This sounds crazy right now, but oh it works!
I hope you attract the most amazing people in your life! And I hope you become that person for many others ☺
