Well, we know how difficult it can get with women. As a smart man once said, “you cannot live with them, you cannot live without them.” It’s one thing when the only woman who makes you go berserk is your girlfriend. But it’s a completely different thing when you have to deal with her friends who aren’t very understanding or accommodating. Remember the friends “Poo” (KareenaKapoor) had in K3G (KabhiKhushiKabhiGham)? You cannot neglect them because then you shall be considered insensitive. You cannot bear with them because you think they are insensitive. How do you face this?
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The kind of annoying friends you’d want to stay away from
The no privacy kind
They are the ones who intrude into your dates because they think you wouldn’t mind at all. And your partner loves them too much to ditch them. What you can do is to turn the misery into fun. That might sound difficult, but try hanging out with them and call in your friends once in a while too. That’ll probably let your girlfriend know how you might feel when they ambush your dates that way. If not, call it a party. Or just talk to her about it.
Thetexters
There are always the ones who constantly want to keep in touch. Your girlfriend is always on the phone with them giving out every detail like the color of her shoelaces. Honestly, this has got to do more with your girlfriend than her friends. Tell her you don’t like it when she is always on the phone and that you want to spend time with her. Maybe give her a small present when you break this to her, that will keep you going.
The “how was the sex” kind
Well, there are always those friends who want all the details of your sex life. So the next time they ask you how it was, tell them it was great but you missed them. And you can suggest them to join you next time. That will give them the creeps and they won’t ask it again.
The partying kind
There are always those friends who are resonating with energy. They are social butterflies and they keep inviting you to these parties that you keep ditching. You cannot always be the one to compromise and you need to realize this. Its okay to go out clubbing once in a while, but when it gets out of hand, your girlfriend should understand. And she should want to spend the evening on that couch with pizzas and movies. Every relationship is a two-way street.
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Then there are always people who you cannot categorize. They are the friends who breathe under your nose and are immensely annoying but you cannot do anything about it. You would never wish your girlfriend had friends like Aisha (SonamKapoor) in the movie “Aisha”, who would decide who should be hooked with whom, would you? There may also be nothing wrong with some friends but you just don’t like them. Honesty should be the best policy out here. Try and be accommodating. I am sure your partner would do the same for you. If you cannot, then go nuts. For every time they crash your date, crash theirs the next time.
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