Have you ever been in a bad relationship and wondered how you never realized you would be so incompatible?
Or did you ever curse yourself about how you chose to be with a person you could now see as such a misfit for you?
Just as most people feel they choose who they fall in love with, there’s also something called choosing who you should ‘not’ fall in love with. In fact, if you look at it, it makes more sense that you pay more heed to the latter than the first, right?
Before you start wondering, here’s how you can save yourself the trouble of some unnecessary heartbreak (remember, a broken heart can actually stress your heart and increase your risk of heart disease!) and find someone you can actually spend some good time with.
Before you actually start the relationship
We all know when we are getting those signals and when we feel that we may end up starting something with someone. If you’re getting those vibes, and if there’s something telling you that you need to stop and not go ahead with it, it could actually be a good idea to listen to your intuition and stop it right there.
“I couldn’t help it” is not really a good enough excuse, especially when you’re talking about something that is as important as sharing part of your life with someone, no matter for how long.
If you’re already in a relationship with that wrong person, then what?
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Then all you have to do is spot the signs and take a call. Of course it is going to be a tough call to take, given the fact that we humans tend to look for what can happen in future and how it can be a nice thing, instead of focusing on the present and seeing what a disaster the relationship actually is.
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If the miracle hasn’t happened yet, don’t wait, coz it most likely never will, and your crappy relationship or your crappy partner won’t turn into an ideal relationship that you always dreamed of.
The thing is, unless you’re truly happy, you won’t be able to give back that happiness and positivity to your relationship, and the horrible cycle will never end. Trust your heart, wait for love to happen again.
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