Here’s Why Your Partner Should Be Your Best Friend First

Who else do you plan to be yourself if not with your partner

 

None of us are without a friend, or a best friend. That is perfectly normal and appreciated. We are social beings after all. In spite of that we choose to get into a relationship and have a partner who we wish to be with us at all times. When we have such a person in life, it is important that we turn that person into our best friends.

Your Relationships Become Easier

When you are best friends with your partner, your fights are less damaging to your relationship. This is because at the back of your mind, both of you know that you are the best of friends, and are transparent to each other. That is the essence of a beautiful and healthy relationship.

You Can Be More Yourself

Yes, when your partner is your best friend, you don’t need to pretend to be someone else. You can just be yourself without being conscious and without the fear of being judged. That’s because you are already best friends so there’s really no reason to act out. You can be as silly as you like, bring out the child in you and you can be assured that you’ll never be judged.

Imran Khan and Genelia D’souza are best friends first in Jaane Tu Ya Jaane Na

Image Credit: Movie – Jaane Tu Ya Jaane Na

You Can Count On Each Other

When you are best friends with your partner, you can count on them always. In reality, it is not possible that your partner can be around you every time when you need them. But with the right kind of trust and understanding, you would know that even if your partner could not be around you when you needed him, he is always with you even if he is far away.

Life these days is very different than before. Unlike our parents, who lead a comparatively simpler life, we are into a lifestyle that involves a lot of stress and anxiety. To handle such times, it is necessary that we have at least one person in life with whom we can be ourselves. Small bickering sessions are absolutely normal. However, hiding things from your partner, or questioning them over every move they make is going to make things difficult. An easy-going and friendly relationship is a healthy one. There is very little chance of your relationship going wrong when your love is based on genuine friendship along with love of course!

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