Is there something that you have been wanting from your partner for a long time but didn’t get around to asking for it? You want them to buy you that dress or a bunch of flowers but you don’t want to sound desperate or worse, nagging. Because there is nothing more annoying than a nagging or clingy partner.Solution? Well, you need to educate yourself in the subtle art of persuasion my friend and trust me, it doesn’t take much.
Lingerie Helps
He cannot say no to a steaming hot body under a black or red lacy lingerie, can he? Put it on and surprise him. He will only drool and give you the moon if you ask for it. If you are a man, put on some nice clothes, chequered/white shirts and rolled up sleeves can steal a woman’s heart in no time. Don’t think about it, just do it and then tell them what is it that you want. If your partner is human, he/she cannot deny it. Who would be able to say no to Priyanka Chopra’s hot body in “Dostana”? NO ONE.
The way to the Heart is through the Stomach
Let’s humor ourselves and say it’s not just true for men. Women love food just as much. Cooking a fancy meal for your partner, with candles and fairy lights will keep him/her yearning for more. You can also choose to take your partner out, but trust me cooking it yourself will help!
Don’t be Aggressive
If you want something don’t scream, shout, beg and cry for that. Your partner will not appreciate its value if you do so. Instead be gentle and tender. Tell him/her you want something nicely when they are in a good mood. Seize the opportunity and use it to the best of your abilities.
Give what your Partner Wants
If you want something from them, you should first give them what they desire. Anything at all, do it so that they know you appreciate them and love them and they will be willing to do the same for you. Pay attention to the little details. Look them in the eye and run your fingers through their hair if you have to. Touch always has a memory. Be nice to them so that they can be nice to you in return.
Flirt!
The old way is the best way. You should never stop flirting with your partner. Alia Bhatt got what she wanted in “Student of the Year” with her amazing flirting skills shown in the movie. So why should you not try!
Whatever it is, your partner cares about you and will give it to you. Nagging will only accentuate the tension in your relationship, and you might as well forget about getting what you wanted. Give him enough space to grow and enough room to realize your demands first. Once he understands and the thing you wished for does not end the world around you, you will surely get it!
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