A relationship is always and always about love, care, trust and affection and understanding towards each other. But many times, some people don’t get this. ‘Relationship is like a Butterfly, if you let loose, it’ll go away, but if you hold too tight, it’ll die’. Many times, guys, tend to become dominant in their relationship and impose restrictions on their girlfriends.
If you are in such a relationship then it’s time to move on immediately! Here’s how you can do that
Lessen Your Communication
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If your partner is getting abusive and you don’t want him to communicate with you much then it’s time you stop all conversations with him. Avoid him as much as you can and ignore his messages. Even though he might say sorry, it’s wiser to stay away from such a relationship. Loving yourself is more important. If he demands an answer for your sudden changed behavior, care not to answer.
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Stop Spending Time Together
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This is easier said than done but if you try it’s not that difficult. Start doing things you enjoy doing on your own. Try to think of things that make you happy (not him, of course). Start hanging out more with your friends.
Stop Being Scared Of Him
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First things first, you should never be scared of someone whom you love. And if you are, then that does not love. Former Miss World, Aishwarya Rai Bachchan has reportedly admitted that Salman’s abusive nature and violent activities in the likes of creating scenes at her workplace or outside her apartment, forced her to walk away for good. It’ll hurt in the beginning, but it’s worth all the pain.
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Tell Him About It and End It
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This is the most difficult step of all. You can’t beat around the bush and ignore the situation. Someday or the other you have to be honest and say “It’s Over!”
Include a Third Person
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If you think, that your partner won’t let go of you easily, ask for interference from a third trustworthy person. It may be your best friend, your close cousin, or any confidante whom you believe in would help and not worsen the condition.
These steps are not easy to follow. But it’ll surely help you in long run.
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