Found A Match On Tinder? Here’s What To Do Next!

What should you do if you have found a match on tinder?

Make them want to know you

 

Tinder is the new age dating app that lets you set up a date in a swipe (literally!). The app gives you an option to browse through prospective guys and once you ‘right swipe’ them and they ‘right swipe you’ you guys are ‘matched’.

So what happens next? What to do after you have matched with each other?

Here’s looking at what should be your next step:

First Move

There’s always the debate whether the girl or guy should make the first move. Well, we are in a generation where we are setting-up dates based on an app so we can definitely throw these notions out of the window. Even if you are a girl, there’s no harm in saying a ‘hi’ first.

Discussing Purpose

It is important to be clear about what your purpose is while matching with the person. Are you looking for an online relationship, a real date or just a f*ck buddy? As long as there’s clarity from both sides, the conversation can then further move that way. It is important to clarify this first so that you don’t have any false expectations.

Setting A Meet-up

Considering the number of online trolls increasing, it is best that you don’t postpone meeting the person. Putting a face to someone who’s been chatting with you online is important and also to check the authenticity of their profile. Preferably, meet in a place that you’re most familiar and comfortable with so that if the meeting doesn’t go as expected, you can find your way back safely.

Try To Build A Good Rapport Before Meeting

It is best to get to know each other as much as you can before meeting so that there’s no awkward silence when you meet. Discuss each other’s likes, dislikes and tastes, thus finding a common ground for both.

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