Let’s be honest and ask ourselves, how many times have we commented at a couple at the mall, ‘God, he’s too hot for her,’ or ‘Why would she choose him of all the guys out there?’ While love is about the bond two people share, and how much they respect and care for each other, we often think in terms of looks and attitude of two people. The moment these two are not complimenting for each other, we do raise an eyebrow. If you want to date someone hotter here are somethings you might want to keep in mind.
Does He Or She Really Love You?
Before you go into commitments be sure of how the other person feels. While it might hurt to read many a times, if a person it hotter than you, they often just pretend to love you with a motive to just fool around either for money, sex, or a mere ‘time pass’.
What If People Talk Behind Your Back?
Once you know the other person’s feeling are genuine and you go into a relationship, expect people to talk behind your back; strangers, friends, colleagues, relatives – most of them. There will be awkward ogling from strangers in malls, cafés, restaurants, parks – basically everywhere you go. Some of your friends might always be concerned about how and why your partner is hotter than you. But, since none of this will be on your face, you will have to pretend none of the bit is happening. You need to ensure that none of that affects you and the relationship.
Can You Handle Your Complexes?
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It is good to face somethings straight. Dealing with people outside is easy than fighting your inner demons. If you constantly have fears and inhibitions about the fact that your SO is hotter than you, then it is bound to cause tensions in your relationship. There could be chances that you always suspect your SO to have affairs with other people who are hotter than you, when reality is something else. If this goes on longer, soon your SO will also freak out of the complexity of the relationship.
If your love is true, you should not be bothered about anything else. Let people talk or stare, you should always be smiling and be in a healthy relationship. Remember that your SO is also aware of the fact that you might not be hotter, but still loves you and puts in effort to let you out of such feelings.
