Some unpredictable and unforeseeable incidents are so impactful; they change us forever. We get drowned in the ocean of sadness. We start feeling there’s no way to get out from that. Especially when we lose someone who is very close suddenly; their death is unacceptable. Our life is shattered.
Or if we are somewhere in the middle of a happy marriage or a relationship but suddenly things happen and it’s never the same again; things start to change. The relationship is no longer the same and eventually it ends. Finished! That’s what we feel! There is no life beyond this; deep inside everything is devastated, shattered and broken; heart filled with darkness!
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Destiny cannot be determined and fate cannot be changed; but friends that’s not the end, that really isn’t! Our parents, teachers, some experienced well-wishers often give us a piece of advice when they notice us in depression, that out of all TIME is the best healer; a medicine. However bitter it may feel at that time to digest that advice but its proven and its absolutely true. And at that moment we may feel offended and left out. We feel that they would never understand that this pain is something that would remain constant. But it’s never like that. After darkness comes light. After night comes day. Though time won’t make you forget things but it will make you understand and grow towards reality. Time is a great healer.
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“Change is inevitable” said somebody special to me once. And what was said is pretty much true; if I really look back through my life, nothing that I had thought, would remain the same has remained that way everything has changed. Though in some instances, some people are most difficult to forget; their memories are difficult to let go. Many times a thought passed my mind that it was the end of my world but as time passed by I learnt to accept things the way they are meant to be; I moved onto better things. Though some wounds show up again after they are scratched. But here I am creating a better world for myself. I have realized that with time and if given some time, time heals your pain; maybe not completely but at least it covers it up!
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Don’t let those memories vanish; let them be, but learn to smile back at life once again. This is how you will let yourself and time to heal your suffering. With time we learn and adapt to live without them, without all those special ones whom we had thought would stay with us forever. That’s the way life is, nothing lasts forever. Nothing here is permanent; only memories are! If you still wonder if you will ever be able to overcome your grief: you definitely will. Give yourself time. Get up, smile back to life, let positive changes peek in and slowly release your pain. Eventually, the transformation this does is amazing. Unessential and unworthy things no longer affect you! TIME HEALS EVERYTHING!
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