Live-in relationships have become quite a common affair today. When we talk about taking a relationship to the next level, going for a live-in is what a lot of people choose. What’s interesting is that even though two consenting adults may be involved, when it comes to convincing the family, it will still be one of the hardest things to do.
Wondering what’s going to be your opening line when it comes to dropping the bomb on your parents? Well, let’s try to find the best ways to do this.
Here are some ways that you can talk to your parents about heading for a live-in :
1. Make It A Face to Face Conversation
Running away from the reality will get you no good. If you have to talk to your parents, do it face-to-face. Don’t resort to calls or texts since they will not give you a good chance explain. Having a face-to face will give them an impression that you’re certain of your choice. Remember the scene in Befikre, how comfortably Vani Kapoor’s character confesses to her parents about moving in with her boyfriend.
2. Put Focus On Compatibility Over Physical Aspect
For most parents, ‘live-in’ rings bells to all things physical and hence you have to let them know that this is a great way for you work on your compatibility as partners. It’s important that you show how this is a form of serious commitment from both sides. Don’t let your parents watch movies such as Shuddh Desi Romance. It will only lead them to say a big ‘NO’.
3. Do It Without Your Significant Other
When it comes to the ‘The Talk’, it’s best if you do it by yourself. For your family, it’s a personal matter and they are yet to accept your SO to be a part of every discussion. Also, without his/her involvement, they can give an honest feedback.
4. Keep Your Mind Open
It’s fine for you and your parents to agree to disagree in this case. Don’t try to push them to accept your decisions right away, give it time.
Lastly, keep calm and power through!
