Getting flirty with a guy over text can be a little difficult initially. You want to flirt and sound fun and interesting, but at the same time there are quite a few things that are best to be avoided.
Once you’re ready to pick up the phone and chat him up, these tips can help you flirt without sounding cheap, and get him all interested and crazy about you.
Say You’re Thinking Of Him
Everyone loves to hear that someone is thinking of them and if you’re not sure what kind of an opening line you want to try, telling him that you’re thinking of him is one of the best choices. It could be about something you read or saw, and how it made you think of him.
Use His Name While Chatting
When you add his name to the chat, it will add that personal touch, making it more about him and you. Don’t overdo it by texting his name in every response – use it maybe twice or thrice at most throughout the length of the chat.
Use Those Emojis
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While a smiley emoji may not immediately sound flirty, it can do the trick when used in the right text. Adding a smile or a wink here and there will keep it light, yet add that fun element to your chat.
Heat It Up With Subtle Texts
Don’t jump into raunchy talk the moment he starts responding, unless all you’re looking for is some quick sex. Give hints and let him come up with the questions. If you don’t think it’s working, say something like “I just got out of the shower” – this will let him think about you, but without you doing too much of the talking.
Adding A Few Compliments Is Nice
He’ll love it if you tell him you love the way he looks in the display picture, or the way the shirt looks on his body – basically something that will make him feel good about himself and will show that you notice.
Guys will almost always be able to notice when you’re trying too hard, so be yourself, and think of it as something that you’re doing for fun, without stressing too much about it.
