People may have replaced writing romantic letters with texts but there are still some gestures you can’t rely on technology for. Certain things are best conveyed when we say it in person.
Tech can act as a villain sometimes. A text may give a wrong impression if the other person doesn’t understand your tone. Also, emoticons then play a bigger role too.
Here’s looking at a few things you must say only in person:
1. Popping The Marriage Question
If you plan to take your relationship to the next level, make sure that you do it in person. It may not have to be the grandest gesture but just saying it in person makes it look like a decision that is certain. Doing it over the phone or text makes it seem like a trivial matter. Also, you would want to see how the other person reacts to it, hence in person is the best.
2. If You Want A Break
A break may not necessarily end up as a break-up and hence if you need a little ‘me time’, you will have to talk to your significant other. If you choose to tell them via text or phone, there’s a good chance of them misunderstanding your point. They may assume you’re not interested anymore. Talking in person about it will smooth things over. Remember Deepika Padukone and Imran Khan’s Break Ke Baad? The much needed break just made things better!
3. Clearing Your Conscience
If you think you’ve done something wrong and that could hurt your loved one, it is best to come clean about it in person. Apologizing in person could convey how sorry you are for doing whatever you have done. It also shows that you respect the person enough.
4. Telling Them That They May Be Going Wrong
If your SO is taking a decision that you think is wrong, it is best that you tell them about what you feel on the face rather than a call. Such things need to be discussed and a phone or a text is not the right medium of communication for it.
