What is ‘the one’ really? This is one freaky concept that we keep chasing in our relationships. It is that soulmate thing when you know for sure that your significant other is your perfect fit, he’s the left shoe to your right one.
Once you start dating, you’re looking for signs that tell you that the person you’re seeing is truly ‘the one’. It is difficult because there is no exact way of finding what really makes your girlfriend or boyfriend that special person.
But there are little gestures that are enough to tell you this is it. Of course, not all of us are as lucky as Kit Harrington and Rose Leslie. He says, “If you’re already attracted to someone, and then they play your love interest in the show, it becomes very easy to fall in love.” Wouldn’t that be easy!
Well, here are some signs that show she’s your one:
1. You Don’t Miss Being A Bachelor
Do you think it has been a while since you even felt like looking at someone else? Well, clearly, you’re quite happy with your gal. This means that you’re no more looking for any action, not just physically but just to get attention too. You are deeply in love and no one else excites you as much is a big sign that this is that special person.
2. She’s Your Go To Person For Everything
From the smallest of decisions to big steps, you involve her and seek her advice. She’s your go to person for almost everything, which means half your life is dependent on her. If you’re at this phase, you ought to know that you have accepted her as your ‘the one’ already.
3. She Makes You A Better Person
Has she made you realize your true potential? There’s nothing like a supportive girlfriend and if you think she has or she will always stand by you through the thick and thin, you hold onto her.
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One of the most iconic couples today, Barrack Obama and Michelle Obama have literally stood beside each other through everything. He once said, “I wouldn’t be the man I am today without the woman who agreed to marry me 20 years ago. … Michelle, I have never loved you more. I have never been prouder to watch the rest of America fall in love with you, too.”
4. She’s Your Best Friend
Sometimes it is much easier to get along with one another in a relationship if you start off as friends.
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One of Hollywood’s most loved couples Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds are known to be best buddies of each other. He once mentioned in an interview, “It was weird at first but we were buddies for a long time. I think it’s the best way to have a relationship is to start as friends.”
5. She Respects You For What You Are
Very rarely do people accept you for what you are. If your significant other respects you for your choices and is proud of the way you are, you should be lucky to have found her. You don’t have to change yourself in front of her and that means she’s already family to you.
