So you had a breakup and are obviously sad and upset and totally buried in the blues, right?
You can’t get over him or her even though you both couldn’t stay together for whatever reasons, there is no one else who is able to make you feel that way, and you’re always thinking how things could have been different if there was some change here and there and how happy you would have been.
Let it go.
It’s happened now, but the best part is that, even though you may not realize it right away, there’s a lot of good this breakup is going to do for you.
Don’t believe me?
I’ve had my share of major breakups too, episodes that convinced me I would not live again, would not smile again, wouldn’t get back my happy spirit again. But things change my friend, and it’s going to only get better.
You both are able to move out of a relationship now, instead of spending a life together and realizing in your old age how horrible you make each other feel.
Some people are meant to be, some aren’t, and some can stay in your life as friends once the wounds heal.
This can finally be the time when you focus on your career again.
Most of us who go all out there in a relationship end up taking away some time from our work, trying to pay more attention to our partner, and even bunking work so that we can spend some extra time with them. Now that it’s not the same, maybe you can get your high by getting some kickass stuff done at work?
You’ll know the positive and the warning signs in your next relationship.
This is no reason why you should have a breakup, to learn from it, doesn’t make sense right? But now that you loved so deeply and still it didn’t work out, you’ll be a better judge of personality the next time. You’ll know what characteristics could spell disaster for you in the long run, and which ones to cherish and hold on to.
You actually learn how to deal with pain and suffering and this is something that will make you better at handling difficult situations.
Right now it will feel as if you don’t need any of it, and nothing will ever get better, but it will, in a few months, a year maybe? But it absolutely will.
And you will learn to again be the person you are, in a happy and positive way, without just being part of a couple.
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