A positive relationship should leave you feeling happy and relaxed, but if you’re worrying about whether they’re in it for the long haul then you can be left feeling deflated. Most people will show signs that they want to commit to your relationship. To help identify these, we’ve put together a list of traits someone has when they’re truly committed.

Caring and Considerate

When you have a problem, do they listen and care? Ask yourself whether they’re engaged in your problems and whether they are there for you when you need them. ESFJ personality types are particularly good at this, ESFJ meaning extraverted, sensing, feeling, judging. However, that doesn’t excuse the rest of us, as caring about your partner’s problems is vital in a relationship.

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Happy Holidays

Holidays are expensive and so you want to pick the right person to experience them with you. Often you want to relax on holiday with your partner. So, if your partner won’t go on holiday with you, but is always spending money on going on holiday with their friends, then they possibly could fear commitment. Holidays should be a happy time spent together, so make sure they’re committed to it.

Family and Friends

If you haven’t met their friends or family yet, then ask yourself why. Your partner should want to introduce you to their friends and their family, as it’s important to be proud of the relationship you’re in. It could be that they’re shy, so an easy way to work out whether they’re committed is to just ask to organise a get together with loved ones.

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Time Spent Together

Most relationships spend time with one another, but does your other half commit fully to your dates? There are loads of unique date ideas so ask your partner on one, and see if they engage in the time you have together. If they seem vacant and are always bailing or are often distracted by their phone, then it’s time to start asking questions.

Communal Purchases

Buying things together, however small, is an important sign that they want you in their lives. You know you’re in a committed relationship when you start buying food. These small acts of kindness demonstrate to a partner that you’re inviting them into your life. If you don’t do this as a couple maybe it’s time to start.

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Finally, Relax and Enjoy…

Relationships shouldn’t always be stressful, and the good days need to outnumber the bad ones for you to be happy. People show commitment in a range of ways, so it’s important to communicate with them if you’re concerned. Most people will begin to demonstrate the traits listed above when they’re invested in you. Remember to put into your relationship what you want to get out!

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Backbiting about exes in common friends

It’s often seen that couples who are head over heels in love with each other dramatically change their perspectives about each other after breakup. They go about discussing secrets about their exes and pacify their anger. It’s always a good idea to let the secrets and nasty things be between you both; it just shows that how untrustworthy you are.

Discussing bedroom secrets

He/ she likes this to be done this way; that’s his/ her weakness; this excites him/ her. The agenda of the person discussing such intimate secrets is quite obvious it’s to malign the person’s reputation; but let me tell you it’s the stupidest idea. Its morally incorrect I would say, those were the private moments and they shouldn’t be revealed publically.

Making quick and impulsive decisions

Going on a hunt for a replacement immediately, constantly surfing dating sites, approaching singles, stalking exes and their friends, flirting with anybody available, this all is going to put you in the same situation soon. All these ideas are the dumbest; LOL! Your ex is your ex for some reason don’t ever forget that.

Blame games

Its well-played! Blame games are common, we could have done better; had he/ she done this or not done this, she/ he used to nag constantly, she/ he didn’t make efforts. Gone is gone, and it’s nowhere; how’s blame game going to help you anyhow? I would say make it a point to talk less about them anymore. MOVE ON!

Being self-destructive

A heartbreak is equal to a heart attack, ask any lover! Constant feeling of loneliness, emptiness, memories flashback, and the most painful is going to bed without his/ her texts or calls, and waking up without them. Everything’s seems to be tasteless during this period many people have thoughts of self-destruction, as if it’s the end of the world. Don’t ever let such thoughts breed on your mind; its worthless. Just GO out and have FUN!

Isolating yourself

Eventually we start isolating ourselves for various reasons; maybe when you see other couples having a great time, it reminds you of them. Maybe some places remind you of them. Or you are feeling awkward to face your friends as you were boasting about how your relationship is magical the last time you met. Nothing holds weight as long as you react to it, shit happens with us all, this is life. After the moment of embarrassment is gone; charge up and take on your life, don’t shy away for too long!

Posting about it on social media

That’s actually the dumbest thing most of us do. Now that you are deeply hurt and maybe want your friends’ and exes to know that you are no longer committed, and want to show how deeply and badly it has affected you, so you put it on your social account. But I personally feel not all emotions are meant to be advertised. Won’t it be embarrassing if you find somebody special again and he goes through your profiles, he may just judge you on that basis and he may jump to a conclusion that you can’t handle the lows of life very well.

Breakup is just a phase not end of the world. Acting irrationally after breakup may give a chance for your company of friends to pass judgements about you; so it’s a wise idea to avoid those above things mentioned as they are the commonest things most of us do unknowingly or maybe on purpose. Crying over old photos, going through old texts are the commonest though; just delete them and let it vanish; not only from your mobile but from your memories as well. I hope you all get over your breakups soon and find new love of your life at the right time. There’s plenty of love in this world don’t waste time on taking revenges and stop dwelling over past. “To love is a feeling; but to be loved is a blessing”!

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If she goes out too often.

If she likes to socialize, make friends and likes to have some great time. Or she goes out for work and she has to remain out for work. That’s a big concern for the so called flagbearers of the intellectuals of society’s prestige. They raise questions like it’s unacceptable and doesn’t suit a woman to stay out for a long time; it upsets them as they feel that it can ruin their prestige. Now ‘they’ could be anyone. A husband, a father, a father in law, uncle, mother, mother in law, aunties; it could be anyone except the woman herself. Where she is born only to bother their reputation and prestige in the society.

Judging her by her appearance

She doesn’t like to wear traditional; likes to wear western more so wears western on functions and festivals; this hurts ‘their’ sentiments. They feel their reputation is at stake again. It’s more of a ‘should’ then a ‘want’ for everything in her life. She should do this; she shouldn’t do that! They decide on behalf of her; as if she gave away her brains while marrying! I wish she was asked, what she wants? Why marriage changes ‘what she wants’ into ‘what she should’!

If She has male friends

She is judged for having male friends. And that defines her character according to ‘them’. If she has male friends then they are not sure if they are just friends or beyond that, so they start passing judgements about her upbringing and character. Because she has always been judged by the ‘intellectuals of the society’. They have the privilege of invading her privacy without her permission in the name of protecting the so called honour and prestige of the society. That’s how it is! It has always been like this for generations. She is judged for her loyalty. She is judged for her dignity. She having a male best friend puts her in a situation where she is given a tag of an easily available woman in their language. If she wears loud make up; that’s assumed as she wants to look appealing which is also mistaken as she is inviting unwanted attention.

She is told she is not strong enough

If she decides not to marry, then she is asked how she is going to survive without a partner they have a thinking pattern of like she was born to be given away for somebody to look after her. She can’t live on her own. She is incomplete without a partner. But isn’t it okay if a girl decides to not marry. Why her decision is a prestigious issue for society she lives in.
She decides to bring her children up alone; again that becomes an issue of a social status of the family and their reputation in society is tampered. They have assumptions like she is not so strong enough to look after herself and her children. And she is also asked to tolerate with whatever way she gets treated in her marriage and told not give up on her abusive marriage as it would ruin her honour and both the families honour.

Domestic violence and verbal abuse are still not taken seriously and are treated as common things to happen in a marriage

If she is treated badly by her husband and in-laws, her character assassination is done on daily basis, a reproduction device is all identity she has left of her by them and sometimes her if husband gets a bit physical, and slaps her hard; that follows later with occasional beating and verbal abuses that’s also not taken seriously; “utna to har ghar mai hota hi rehta hai”; what’s serious here is that was she taught that its ok if he loses his temper and hits her occasionally, but WHY? My question is to her parents; wasn’t she raised equally? Wasn’t she important to you when she was a child. Then why does it change after marriage? How does it affect a father’s social status and how his honour gets triggered by it, if she breaks off her abusive marriage? The family should stand by her, in fact the family in which she has got married and that husband who treats her badly should lose their honour; the woman is blamed for what? Is she blamed for not tolerating their physical and verbal abuse and domestic violence and list of things that are unfavourable!

non-consensual sex affects the mental health of a woman severely

If unfortunately, she gets raped/ molested; the family prefers to keep it a secret than raising voice over it because they feel that their family’s reputation would be affected. She wants to speak up for herself and against the culprits but she is asked not to as its about her honour, family’s honour, society’s honour. Unfortunately, non-consensual sex in marriage is also very common. Her NO is never taken into account. It affects a woman’s mental health to a greater extent. A woman never approves a physical relationship with a man who doesn’t respect her; it’s a difficult thing to accept. Shouldn’t a non-consensual sex in marriage be considered as a rape too? What I don’t get is that; why is the honour only limited to a woman? A guy that rapes her should be traumatised not her, his honour should be affected not hers.

I wonder sometimes how a woman has become the brand ambassador of the so called society’s honour, that what she wears, how many male friends she has, how long she stays out, she marries or gets a divorce, is she a virgin or not, all is represented by the way she chooses to live her own life. She is treated as if her life defines the honour of the society; what limiting thinking to live with. Instead the society should create an atmosphere where boys are brought up in a way that they learn to respect a woman they should be taught that even women deserve all the freedom and rights to live life their way. She is not an object; she was put to life to live, grow and die exactly like all other men in this world.
A woman alone at night in the street is not because she is supposed to be a prey of coldblooded rapists on the road; sometimes it may be her necessity. When we were children back then, how innocently we used play together, fight together, don’t know from where these limited ideas of sexual discrimination started to feed on and what makes a human so ruthless that everything changes within them and the human inside them is not a human anymore.

But I am happy that woman nationwide have started realizing their worth and they don’t approve of any sort of ugly behaviour towards them they take stand for their rights and speak up against any sort of inappropriate situations; they don’t tolerate domestic violence anymore as the new woman of today is empowered, independent, confident and most of all she knows her worth. For all the women who are still silently tolerating any kind of misbehaviour please learn to fight for yourself from this Navratri onwards. You need to be respected first; before being celebrated. You were born to shine don’t let anybody that away from you!

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Destiny cannot be determined and fate cannot be changed; but friends that’s not the end, that really isn’t! Our parents, teachers, some experienced well-wishers often give us a piece of advice when they notice us in depression, that out of all TIME is the best healer; a medicine. However bitter it may feel at that time to digest that advice but its proven and its absolutely true. And at that moment we may feel offended and left out. We feel that they would never understand that this pain is something that would remain constant. But it’s never like that. After darkness comes light. After night comes day. Though time won’t make you forget things but it will make you understand and grow towards reality. Time is a great healer.

“Change is inevitable” said somebody special to me once. And what was said is pretty much true; if I really look back through my life, nothing that I had thought, would remain the same has remained that way everything has changed. Though in some instances, some people are most difficult to forget; their memories are difficult to let go. Many times a thought passed my mind that it was the end of my world but as time passed by I learnt to accept things the way they are meant to be; I moved onto better things. Though some wounds show up again after they are scratched. But here I am creating a better world for myself. I have realized that with time and if given some time, time heals your pain; maybe not completely but at least it covers it up!

Don’t let those memories vanish; let them be, but learn to smile back at life once again. This is how you will let yourself and time to heal your suffering. With time we learn and adapt to live without them, without all those special ones whom we had thought would stay with us forever. That’s the way life is, nothing lasts forever. Nothing here is permanent; only memories are! If you still wonder if you will ever be able to overcome your grief: you definitely will. Give yourself time. Get up, smile back to life, let positive changes peek in and slowly release your pain. Eventually, the transformation this does is amazing. Unessential and unworthy things no longer affect you! TIME HEALS EVERYTHING!

Share with me how you related yourself to this article and drop in your comments. Till then keep shining and smiling!

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Never compare yourself with others

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Jealousy is an emotion which is an outcome of inadequacy, lack of self- esteem, anxiety. It’s so mean to compare ourselves with others and question our own capabilities. Just understand that you deserve to be in a relationship with your partner and his friendship doesn’t make any difference to your relationship. He has chosen you, over everybody else so there might have been something unique in you, which he fell for. We are never inferior or superior than anybody else. Everyone is unique and beautiful in their own way. Comparing ourselves with another person is a total insult to ourselves which we should avoid doing.

Respect the personal space of your partner

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Some people think its ok to invade their partner’s privacy as they are the part of their life. Invading a partner’s privacy to a certain limit is okay but if it goes beyond that and you cross that fine line of invading and actually suspecting then it could certainly damage your relationship. Like all other living things on this planet, I personally feel that a relationship also needs oxygen to breathe; oxygen here means positive emotions like love, care, respect, support. If you try to keep it alive on carbon dioxide which here means jealousy, anger, over possessiveness, dominating one another; it’s certainly not going to sustain for long.

Stop getting angry over petty issues

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If you feel awful that your partner gives time to his best friend and discusses things; let me tell you it’s absolutely okay. Everybody of us are comfortable sharing issues with our friends; sometimes it’s also because maybe they are together for a longest time. Imagine having a nagging friend or sibling with you all the time; you need a break from them, right? It’s exactly the same with a nagging partner; nobody would want you around all the time; despite of all the love you have for your partner.

Having trust is important

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Trust is an important essence of every relationship; it’s like a foundation. When you sense that your partner’s attention is getting shared with somebody else other than you; the trust issues pop up. But you need to understand that showing trust and actually having trust towards your partner creates a stronger bond and adds on respect regarding you. If there is no trust the relationship can get shattered. Without trust you won’t trust your partner on something like; even talking on a phone with his best friend. It’s absolutely smothering!

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Every relationship is based on beautiful emotions like love, trust, support, care, respect and affection. If any of this lacks somewhere jealousy and disrespect takes over and relationship is in jeopardy. With a proper mutual understanding and trust between partners; relationship can be fascinating and deserving. Share me your comments on this and let me know your views.

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Let’s first see its benefits-
Getting rid of an abusive relationship-

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If we are having an abusive relationship, we easily get out of that relationship as there are less commitments in such relationships. And we can move on for good without affecting ourselves more, emotionally.

Less expectations-

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We have often seen, more the committed relationship is more there are expectations; it’s a burden basically. But now a day’s young generation prefer being less attached and live their lives independently and thus, they have less expectations comparatively. It encourages them to maintain their respective space and sometimes maintain a good relationship.

Let’s have a look at its drawbacks-

Feeling of isolation-

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Because of these short term commitments, we eventually start feeling isolated as that void remains inside us and subsequently we may get depressed for some time. Repeated isolation leads to depression in meanwhile.

Lack of self-confidence-

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As time goes by we may start blaming ourselves for the failure of our relationships which is not good for our mental health; criticising and blaming ourselves for something unknowing may shatter us deep down.

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It is a primary need of every person to have somebody to love, care and share. Love adds magic in our lives. If we put in efforts and genuinely appreciate each other and accept each other beyond our flaws love relationships can work out. It takes immense gratitude and feeling of compassion towards each other to make it work. I wish you all get your loving partners somewhere in your infinite world.

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Since the conversation on misogyny and feminism has been at its most explosive from recently, let us take a look at what it takes to be feminist boyfriend!

He Gives Your Career An Equal Importance

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A feminist boyfriend would take your career as seriously as he takes his. He wouldn’t be intimidated if you happen to earn more than him. He would not actively enable the gender pay gap by his actions or thoughts. He understands that men have it easier when it comes to building a career in this unfair world. He would consider your career goals on the same level as his before making life-changing decisions.

Does Not Support Gender Roles

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Gender roles are perhaps the most internalized evil of our society. In fact, most of us believe that they exist for good. But if your boyfriend is a feminist, he would beg to differ. He will share the household burdens if you are living together. He will share the bill if you are both earning equally. You guys would cook together, every once in a while. Your feminist boyfriend will treat you like a lady but not impose a role on you or take away your choice of taking up one.

Discuss Everything With You. Everything!

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We have all heard of the “men talk”. Or the “Ladies talk”. Well, your feminist boyfriend would know that neither exists. Both of you are equally capable of taking part in and contributing to any discussion or debate. Be it a kitchen recipe, or political news, or an intellectual argument. This boyfriend of yours would discuss everything with you and often indulge in intellectual debates.

He Is Considerate And Sympathetic About Birth Control

Your boyfriend wouldn’t be awkward or scared of bringing up the conversation of birth control. He would be a great listener and respect how if things go south, you have to face the repercussions alone. He would discuss different options with you and make sure you are comfortable with what you have chosen to use. He would say he is sorry that no male contraceptives exist, as of now. And he would for sure Split the cost of contraceptives.

He Cares For Your Sexual Well-Being And Pleasure

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He will always ask your permission before doing it. He will take care that you both actually want the same thing. He will also be thoughtful of your sexual health. He will buy your choice of period kit for you and always be open to a conversation related to your sexual well being without being awkward.

Secondly and most importantly, he will know or try to know what works for you on the bed. He actually loves providing female pleasure and doesn’t mind taking directions.

I know! A feminist boyfriend is a sure shot turn on! What more could one ask for?

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“Go Ahead, I’ll Cover For You!”

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You and your SO have a fun weekend planned for weeks with your friends/family just outside of the city. All of a sudden, your partner has to rush to the city for a family emergency or something important of their own. Do you frown or do you cover for them? It shows your level of teamwork.

“Have Fun Babe!”

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When they’re going to be out partying the night away with their gang and you’re going to have a simple night in with Netflix and some popcorn. Do you have major FOMO and are on the verge of throwing a tantrum or are grateful for the quiet night in? This goes on to show how positively codependent is your relationship.

“Do You Need Me To Get The Seats Booked For Your Trip With Friends?”

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Even though you’re a couple, it’s not an obligation to do everything together, is it? Do you and your partner see the bliss in travelling with your friends? Or are you just the ones with weird separation anxiety? (It’s a real thing between certain couples, guys! no kidding.)

“Dinners Cooked. Waiting, xo”

When you know they are running miles on a crazy day at work, a sweet text like this can be their incentive to do their work better and faster. It also shows that you’re rooting for their success and that you’re proud of the hard work they’re putting in.

“It’s Been A Long Day, We’ll Get Through It”

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When you know they’ve had a series of bad news through the day resulting into a rather unfruitful day, a little doze of motivation might just help them feel better. They’re not alone, what a better time to remind them that than on one of their worst days. It shows how much you’re concerned of their wellbeing.

“I’ll Hold Down The Fort. Go Do Your Thing!”

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You’re at dinner (maybe after a whole week) and your SO’s phone rings off the hook. They’ve been called in for some urgent work. What’s your reaction? Most couples will relate to having given a negative reaction to this in their experience, everyone has. But to support your partner even against your better judgment, sometimes, is necessary and admirable.

“Go! Do it. You Know You Want To!”

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When your partner is hesitant about something they secretly want to do, do you push them? You can see through them and know that doing something will make them genuinely afterwards. This shows how well you know them and how much their personal growth matters to you.

Make sure you SAY these things to you partner and of course MEAN IT. Saying and doing goes hand in hand. But it is always important to say thing aloud! That’s how your partner is assured, you care.

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Labels Scare You Away

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You like them. Hell! You might even be in love with them, but the mere tags ‘girlfriend’ or ‘boyfriend’ is enough to throw you off. You’re subconsciously wired to run away at the slightest hint of a commitment. For instance, the word ‘relationship’ might be even to tick you off and trick you into eschewing your own happiness. Before you know it, you’re on stage 4 of your own escapade to the island of Isolation because someone addressed your love interest as your partner.

Impact Of Relationships Of Those Around You

Not limiting to romantic link ups, many a times the impact of negative experiences of those around us affect our thoughts about the subject, thereby deeply altering it to a level of commitment phobia. The examples could vary from unfulfilled friendships to a void in the relationship with one’s immediate family or even the product of a divorced marriage of someone close to you. If you haven’t had the contentment from any relationships in your life, you subconsciously start believing that all relationships are meant to be incomplete. Your actions too will, intentionally or unintentionally, reflect your hesitation or lack of confidence about the relationship when it comes to taking it to the next level.

It’s A Cycle

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As you grow up, you start noticing this pattern which you now realize is actually a deep-rooted fear of commitment. Your continuous cycle of failed relationships caused due to the same reasons are solid evidence in the case. While it’s absolutely normal to date several people before you find “the one”, it sure is a wise thing to know if it is a commitment issue that is causing the high relationship turnover rate. You can’t open up yourself to anyone beyond a point, and if that’s what is holding your relationship back, it is a strong sign of commitment phobia. It’s nothing to be ashamed of but you do need to seek help if you feel that it is causing more harm in your personal life than you can take on.

Your Head Feels Messy When You Think Of A ‘Relationship’

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So, you’re ‘going out’ with the person you like. You guys are getting lunches and dinners together, you’re staying up at each other’s places and exchange texts all day. All is fine up until it’s time to call it ‘dating’. When you hear the word, does your brain shut itself off and run away? That’s more common than you’d think. You don’t want to deal with the discussion or the mere thought of it because it feels very messy and you want to avoid it at all costs. But how would you feel if you once gathered the courage to first deal with the issue yourself and isolate the one issue that becomes a hurdle in an otherwise awesome relationship?

There are ways to get over these issues. Just stick around people you really love. Do not be scared of committing. How? We will discuss that in another article.

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Communicate, Please

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The best way to begin is to ensure you’re both on the same page. Since you’re both different specimens of homo sapiens, your perspective towards the relationship and each other also differ. You may expect a minute-by-minute update while they may not have the need for such a detailed report. They may be okay going for a party stag (even when it comes to you) while you may want to add them as a plus one to all your shindigs. What you can do is constructively talk about what you guys prefer doing and how. Then work your way forward with it together.

Don’t Make It A Deal-Breaker

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Whether or not you guys have had the sit-down about this subject, there is no way you could’ve covered all possible topics and scenarios. If your partner does something that you are not happy about or if they missed out on doing something which could’ve made you exhilaratingly joyous, then you can tell them how their action or omission of it makes you feel. Use words like “Hey, so this is what happened and it makes me feel uncomfortable.” Or you could say “What you did was wonderful. Thank you so much for it. But you know what could’ve taken it a level higher ..” Never be upset because they couldn’t fulfil your expectations. Instead, talk to your partner about it. That’s the only way you could ensure your partner knows what you want. Not everyone is a mind-reader.

It’s A Two-Way Street

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While you wish to feel loved in your own way, so does your partner. Do you talk their language of love as fluently as you expect them to talk yours? They expect to be given a free pass on nights when they just want to be with their friends. It doesn’t mean your partner doesn’t want to spend time with you, but just that they wish to chill and unwind with their friends. Also, they expect you to be forgiving when they don’t do things that make you happy. Love each other despite of your shortcomings instead of calling each other out on each mess-up. Embrace the flaws and try to understand your partner before trying to change them to fit your idea of a perfect partner.

Know When To Pull The Cord Off

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While not every instance of an unfulfilled Expectation is a red signal, you should always know when really is the right time to pick up your stuff and leave for good. When you realize that your partner and you will never be on the same page about your idea of a relationship, that’s when you should call it off. You can’t change a person and their ideology entirely for a relationship’s sake. In a situation where you are fully convinced that your expectations aren’t delusional and that your partner just doesn’t care about the same things as much as you do, that’s when it is the right time to say bye-bye. Missing a football match for a movie date doesn’t seem like that big of a deal to you, but your partner wants to watch the match when it airs. Don’t torture yourself and your partner over it until you get your way. That usually ends in a breakup.

Do not let expectations kill you and your relationship. Learn to control them. Do not let the expectations control you! It is not as simple as it sounds, but you can get there. Okay?

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